Do you suffer from TAPHOPHILIA?
I know I do. I caught it
from my Dad when I was a young child.
Perhaps you have also been struck down by
it. Don't know, then ask yourself:
“Do you love to roam through cemeteries when you're on holiday?
If so, there's a word for what you've got: "taphophilia", a love of
graves and the rituals of death.
Taphophiles, also known as "gravers", are the people who pore over
epitaphs, gravestones and the history of the dead.” ***
For historians and family history researchers, epitaphs on graves
read like a map to the past – connecting people, places and events. Often they tell
of grief and loss, but also of emigration, incarceration, trauma and tragedy.
A few weeks ago, I wandered through the graveyard on Norfolk
Island. This consecrated ground captures the history of First Fleeters, officers
and guards responsible for the lives and deaths of convicts sentenced to the most
diabolical penal settlement in Australia.
The graves also recognise generation
of descendants of the mutinous crew of HMS Bounty who despatched Captain Bligh
to the Pacific Ocean in an open boat over 200 years ago.
Unfortunately, the main problem with "taphophilia"
is that once the bug gets into your blood stream there is no cure.
*** by Fiona Pepper
and Claudette Werden for ‘Blueprint for Living’ (ABC).